Pyaar Ya Paisa (Love or Money)

 

A very important but common question one comes across atleast once in life. Its true that Money can buy you happiness, but love brings peace. It’s on the human to decide should they live for love or money. Both are important for a happy life. But no one understands how much love and how much money is important. It’s evident that people have seen problems in life even after having millions of money. People choosing love or luxury have suffered in keeping a sustainable life.

Maximum people have more affinity towards money than towards emotion like love. The major reason assumed can be from the fact that they have seen the real life struggles, they have bigger ambitions. Those ambitions need a lot of money to uphold their dreams. Many are never content in what they have. People mostly like to be in always in a stable condition, to be more controlling in life and to have the gigantic impression on everyone around them, being number reason for valuing money over everything else.

Human are so much convinced that they believe whatever they want can be bought from money. They hold the flag to make others believe that luxury, happiness, expensive gifts and lavishness is all that can make them feel complete. They are so much dazzled by the prize brought by the wealth that only thing that matters is how to become even wealthier.  To be wealthiest they forget the lessons learnt in life, they uphold no morality, no wisdom, no kindness and no love for anyone but themselves.

Wealth in hand is equivalent to power in the held in the world. America is one of the wealthiest countries and they are the most powerful countries. Zimbabwe is a poor country and the power that it hold in the world is negligible. This is pretty evident by the fact that power is the byproduct of wealth.

A wealthy person works even harder to keep the wealth growing every year. They are so concerned with their size of wealth that everything else is secondary. This can be easily identified as human nature called, greed. Power is not the only byproduct of wealth. The other prominent byproduct of wealth in a human is greed, selfishness, self centeredness, cruelty, emotionless, and shameless. These are the changes seen in people who believe only in money. The biggest tycoons are both divided into two different categories, the one who have morality and the other without morality. With power comes the responsibility to not only make yourself bigger but to build everyone. Money can buy you not just happiness, but the whole world, for example Elon Musk. But Money can never by you peace and love a practical example is Hitler.  

Lets now count on love and affection and other part of the question.

“Life is the flower for which love is the honey.” Defining love is little difficult to those who have lived only in the superficial world of false praise and lies. Love is formless; it’s a feeling taking birth in the heart as an infinite affection. Love is associated with emotional segment of the brain that is associated with internal satisfaction and happiness. We have experienced love in many forms from our parents, friends and teacher’s. Love is elixir and poison both. Purest form of love builds us whereas, too much of love can destroy us.

Absences of love can make one feel incomplete. The life is never complete without the affection of someone. How can one imagine living happily if that person has never been loved? No amount of wealth can fill the void created by the absence of love. The strongest bond of love as we all have known is the mother and the child. When the world comes to existence for a small child, the first thing that it is introduced to the baby is the warmness of his mother. While we are growing up we look for the same comfort in the presences of others. Someone who can make us feel loved just like our mother did. There is no word that can describe the pain of being devoid of the motherly love.

The meaning of love is very simple, someone wishes the welfare and happiness of the other. All these but nothing in return. But if something is asked in return then it’s nothing but business. And business is definitely not love but trade for their profit and loss in the other person. Birth of love should never be based on the materialistic facts of someone. Thus the saying, "Do not judge by look, that may be a facade to impress you, judge by getting involved and feeling it". Its said a true love is the rarest of the rare gift for anyone, its unique, beautiful and satisfactory. It gives a feeling of completeness to the person. We have seen some friendships and relationships to last forever and that is because they have truly cared for each other. It’s expensive and everyone can’t afford it some just do the drama very well.

Everyone is born with their fate in hand, but the one who dreams and dares to change it are the heroes of their life. If you get a chance be confident enough to leave one for the other, do it for your dream. But yes, do remember its evident that you get either of the one only. It is a fact, love vanishes for ever if you ever rejected it. I strongly believe that one can earn wealth even if that person chooses love over money, but if love is rejected, it’s tough to get that back. Renowned Sufi saints have written verses to describe, what love looks like. No one can understand it’s depth unless one is all into it. Also, the beauty of money is beyond praises, a powerful man can be helpful to many. Finally, to conclude It would be wise to weigh the needs and situations accordingly. Go with the heart because all our life we work hard to make our self happy and satisfied no matter how we achieve it.

 

Inhuman - Working Condition- A chair is missing.

The time when there were no malls, only big to small shops prevailed. It used to have one or more shopkeepers whose work includes to look after the whole shop, customer and giving customer services such as returns, refunds, and other services. It worked like a reputed workplace, shopkeepers had some rights, powers, and respect. With time malls became very common and essential for shopping in big and small towns across the world. But in earlier days the shopkeepers used to have a proper place for them to sit and sell. They did not have to stand the whole day and do the job. In bigger shops there use to be shifts in working hours. And these shops used to take lunch breaks in between and everyone used to get time to go out and take a break. This made their work very comfortable; they liked to work even under pressure they had one thing for sure a place to sit and relieve the tiredness.  

The main issue in the present world is that these people whom we consider labor, who work for betterment of the humanity and take pride in doing all the lower work are suffering at the hands of powerful people. People who control the economy are least concerned about what their labor force is going through. The concern for this blog is the pain that these people who work in stores, malls, and other places are facing. They are working full time whole day standing. This is a kind of cruelty that is been done for decades without any solution.

They are not strong enough to even raise their voices for their concerns. They are more scared of losing their job if they try to question their rights. The advantage is taken by the big mall owners, they are profiting on cost and labor working hours. Every worker, salesperson, and assistant works 8 to 9 hours a day without a chair. They are not allowed to sit and rest. They have to work standing. Even the old (aged) watchman and gatekeepers are not given chairs at the gate. They are ridiculed, not given basic human rights to sit while working, and made to feel like servants in the malls and shopping centers. It not their job to serve while being standing for the whole day and listen to customers comment.

I have written emails regarding this issue long back and kept pursuing the management to take action on it. But I see no change till now. Nothing is changing and no one is caring about it. The whole management seems to ignore this topic all at once. They are working in complete comfort from their home and office so they have no problem. Big companies like Spenser, Zudio, Reliance Mart, Pantaloon, D-Mart and many more are the culprit and bringing down the working standards.

Someone needs to stand against this inhuman practice and break the glass so that others can be protected. Why no one is concerned, why does no one see their pain and help them? It's time to be a little more kind to others, lessons learned in the school in moral science need to be used now to make a profound change in the working culture. This will indirectly help the upper management of the companies to open more portals of comfort working for all employees.

Things that needs to be added are segment shifts, work scheduled, adequate amount of breaks, chairs for everyone working there, rest room, proper formal treatment, timely training, feedback grievance portal, and a stress-free environment. These things need to be added to the malls, shopping centres and Marts. This is needed for all top-to-down management from labor to assistant. May someone one gather the courage to raise their voice against any inhuman working environment.

This is a very small concern compared to other big environmental damages that these big multinational organisations are doing. One by one correct step will lead to an ethical working environment for all. May as a human we start to think and come out  of our mobiles and see the world not from eye but from heart so that we feel what others feeling.

 

When life gives you lemon.

 

When life gives you lemon, you make it lemonade. But if life gives you nothing, you make nothing out of it. It's better to have a lemonade than to have nothing.  Life is never empty, there is always something somewhere silently available.  The power to grab that thing is called confidence.

So, last month I met a woman, she was around 45, with two kids and a divorce. The kids were like 10 and 14. Her beauty was average, at 45 she looked 50 and the only feature that attracted my attention was her smile. That was mesmerizing. She talked very less, mostly about her kids, or complaining about her marriage and how her in-laws and husband ruined her life. I got curious about her after knowing that at 43 she had taken a divorce, single since two years.

We were talking to each other as we sat next to each other in the AC waiting room in Kolkata station waiting room. I asked her, about her life after divorce and got a lame common answer. I asked what actually happened, and she showed no interest in replying to me.  So I changed the topic and asked what you do to meet your ends. She laughed and laughed and then smiled, and said, “I worked for twenty years for a mean man so now he paid for my job.” It was a good sum of alimony that was paid to her. I was curious to know more, like what her relatives, kids, and society had an impact on her. And I was curious because I was trying to understand about marriage and its life.

Was she happy doing this, instead of asking her, I thought to observe her behavior towards people, things, and situations. This gives an overall idea about the person’s mental situation. I kept looking at her elder daughter, who looked just like her mother, and the son who looked like his father, I guess. The kids were fidgeting over a packet of chips and the girl seemed more dominating. While the fight was too loud by now her mother shouted at the girl and then the chips were all of her younger brothers. Here again a girl sacrificed her needs to become a good girl for her mother. At this very young age she was behaving like half mother to the boy.

I went out and bought two samosas and asked her would like to share them, she smiled and said I don’t eat oily food. I went out and started to stroll on the platform looking at passengers and trains. I bought a book to read. While getting back in the cabin I saw her eating the patties and chips. She looked bewildered and smiled at me. I looked at her with surprise, what about the oil now? Anyways, I got bored and I wanted my train to come now. Suddenly she started to explain to me, “I was really hungry and felt that eating a few chips won’t raise my cholesterol as I am suffering from diabetes”.  I showed sympathy to it and asked how long. “Yes, last year only I felt all the symptoms of diabetes, so when I got myself, tested my sugar level was excess high.” On that her daughter said, “I give her medicine on time, mummy will get better in one year only.” Then our discussion started to move on to my parents, my father also got diabetes at his 45th year and so my mother. Both got it in the same year. We discussed natural medicines, yoga, and other method that can be helpful.

Then again a silence, it gave me a chance to talk to her daughter, I looked at her, smiled, and asked, "do you want some chocolates"?, to which she said yes. I said, “Let's go out and buy some for you.” To which she looked at her mother for permission, and reluctantly her mother nodded yes. We went out to a nearby stall and bought chocolates. There I asked her, “ Where does your father lives.” She said here in Kolkata.  I asked her "why did she left your father", And she looked confused and shy to answer. So who is in Delhi, “No one, we are going to Delhi to visit the place, after that, we will go to Agra and return via Haridwar”. The excitement was so clear on her face. “are you not missing your father?”, “No one is missing him, my mother has made some good decisions in her life now, we are happy with it.” She said proudly.

Here I got my answer, it’s not important if she is happy or not, if she will able to meet ends or not, it’s important if is she satisfied, and content with what decisions she has made. Here I was seeing a powerful, confident, and independent woman who took her lemon to make it into a sweet lemonade. A mother taking two young children alone to big cities all by herself to just have a vacation is not very common in our country. I was at that moment inspired, to be confident enough to take a stand for my decisions and the right steps that are important for my growth in life. Its important to walk on path created by you because you are not a pet. Take risk and live for yourself. The danger of passing or failing is always there, the important part is whether are you on the path drawn by yourself or someone else. Life will always try to give you a lemon, you should learn it by the experience how to make a good lemonade. Problems, anger, dissatisfaction, and disappointment are a part and parcel of life don’t take these as danger or something to stop you from making your decisions. Move on, learn with experience and stand and walk. Walk until you reach the goal set by you. The pleasure and happiness that one gets after reaching a the goal is immeasurable.

I have learned a lesson today, anyone can teach you a lesson that is going to help you in reaching your goals. Fear ends when you start to believing in your decision and your ability. Don’t be dependent, just because you think someone else is authorized to guide your life. Take charge, fight, and walk to reach the goal. I went back to the cabin and she was talking to her son and it seemed that she was good enough for her kids and could build the happiest environment for all of them.

 

 

The world of the queens.

                                                            

Society is well-designed by nature with lots of minute details into it. If we look closely we see that the whole world is designed into a colony system. A colony system is a predesigned setup to protect the people living in it. Colonies are created to protect the females and offspring from hunger, predators, disease, danger, and demons. The most powerful in the colony are the males and their role is to protect females and their offspring. We can take examples like colonies of ants, bees, wasps, elephants, lions, birds, and many more. The main role of the male in these colonies is to protect and provide for the female and the offspring, they are supposed to be caretakers of the family. The role of the female is to produce, feed, nurture, and, guide.

Male and female are two creations for two different roles. One is to produce, and the other is to protect. Nature has made the same rules for every species on the earth. Males are built in such a way that they are less emotional, and are more result and goal-oriented as compared to females. Their major goal is to keep their partners happy, to bring food, to bring facilities, taking care of the safety of predators. Males are more valiant in comparison to the female part.

If we look closely it's evident, that a male whose emotional quotient is higher, tends to build a happy colony with less resistance. Females are happier and healthy offspring are developed. Also, males in these colonies prefer taking the advice of their female counterparts for any action. This builds trust and the whole process is fruitful and smooth.  As male has different hormones, they are mostly triggered easily, they tend to dominate, fight, and attract other females. They are very much dependent on short-term moods. A build-up of all these traits brings them to the conclusion that they need to look up to others especially female partners for guidance.

As per saying goes females are creators of the world, but a man keeps it running. Of course, females are dependent on males and they look up to them for survival, safety, and sex. But, if we look upon women and men on the earth, damn women are trapped in a world designed by men. Machines that make the work easy are designed for men, by men, and given to women. That’s why it is difficult for women to run them and easier for men. The world is not safe because some cruel men are free and open. Even biologically men get older very late, their bodies are youthful even in their forties whereas women get older faster. Women can become mothers only till their menopause, whereas men have sperm to make babies in the late 60’s.

Concluding, the imbalance is clear and visible, it is obvious that men are not supposed to control. It’s the female that shows the ability to direct the energy in the right direction with the correct advice. She can control, direct, and rightly operate the whole system with the help of men. A colony works on this principle only, female are meant to do work that needs her guidance and control. The mechanism is built in such a way that women are delicate, can produce babies, and then look after the babies and provide for them. Women are cunning, they can direct men to do work for them and create their world. A world, that gives identity to a male in a colony. All the delicate work is done by the female and the tough done by the males. Women are supposed to be emotionally strong because it takes a lot to create a new generation.

A colony will not work systematically if the male-female task is exchanged or any one section is trying to sabotage the other. Playing against nature is always paid in a disaster. When a male takes control the whole colony is shaken and adversity is faced by everyone involved. Thus, control should be in hands of female and work in the hands of male. History has seen when male don’t listen to females the destruction all prevalent. The colonies die, the society dies and even the family dies. A kingdom falls when the king doesn’t listen to the needs of the people. In the same way a female is meant to be a creator and nurturer, when she breaks this rule her built-up colony falls. The two invisible forces are created to balance each other. Thus, in this world and in its creation male exists because the female wants to have a family.  The female is superior and the queen. The only duty of males is to protect and provide for them. 

A"," in life. When comma is too long.

All changed , city changed ,people changed, life too changed. My favourites changed , my likes dislikes changed, my name changed . it's been long since I have written a single blog. I was busy with a new phase of my life. I got campus placement and last year I was busy with work. This year I am busy in my married life and after some days I shall be busy with a new born life .

If I look back I see so many years have passed and phases kept changing year by year. From student to working lady to married woman to going to be mother.

Everything looks very beautiful very new . yet I am lost in my in old memories. My eyes not able to wink those old days . anyways some great man had said that this is only called growth in life. So I m growing. Am I growing old or am i growing in experience ?

I am not growing I am shrinking. My life is shrinking to the limitations drawn by my own self and nevertheless society. That comma in my title actually represent's the wait that is there in each phase .

My eyes are longing to see what I had seen when I was teen. Actually this comma is the pause between my dream to be and my effort to it.

And that same person has said that there is always an end to all wait. And I am hopefully waiting for the wait to end.

Chatpatti HAJMOLA..!!!

In a population of 100cr Indians its tough to find anyone who has not tasted Hajmola. A candy loved and carved by all age group. Its the Ruler of all candies. In one rupee 6 candies of small button size in colourful sacket. "Aam ya Emily" two taste as always available in those old days but today some modification has given it some more tasty twist. It was actually taken as medicine for digestion generally after heavy meal . but the enjoyable taste of Hajmola was irresistible for anyone. Time to time popping it like pills. 

There has been several modifications, from color to varieties to quantities but the taste is still the same. There is no difference in taste the same tangy, tasty, yummy, yummy. Years after the successful launch of Hajmola in the market on popular demand a Tv ad was made . Which was very interesting to see.

Hajmola never needed an advertisement. It was easily available in all stores of candies and kiranas in all size and price. From past many years Hajmola and my relation broke due to some reasons. But just some days back when i saw Hajmola lying on dining table i could not resist it and popped it one after another in series. The same old tangy taste filled my mouth with childhood joy.

Memories of college days.

Its been 9 days since college got over . The college life is something which everyone remembers and share with their friends and family when ever anything similar crosses their life.

The 1^st day of my MBA college was in June . It was a two years of  diploma experience in the field of business, diplomacy, human relation and financial world.  

I was one month late to college and that’s why quite cut off from rest of the class. To make friends in a diplomatic environment is quite tough. A ray of hope is only possible when  you are ready to adapt and be open to anyone’s proposal. And this happened with me not once but I made two friends. And because of those them I was welcomed in a group. Our chemistry was awesome. They became my best of friend till date.

The process of making acquaintance was progressing and the communication barrier was minimizing. Everyday a new presentation, viva, project were making our life tough. Everything depended on making a strong group. It was very essential to have good working people in the group otherwise the question of who will complete the project would mess up all.

In the best of groups also only one person as messiah, who was responsible to complete the whole work alone . The best moment happened when we all gather to discuss those serious topics of business and projects and presentations. And the whole serious situation turned out to be a get together party with food, snacks, cold drinks and lots of gossip and the presentation had to be Googled and copied atlast . Those silly days brought us so close that it felt like family . The whole hostel was turned into a place where each one use to support other.  Those were the moment when working together in groups made us strong  and we started to think like leaders and take decisions for a team.

The preparation for exams was never in isolation. Group studies helped us not just to study faster but also to pass the exam with mutual efforts. The days were passing with lots of fun and adventure .Fights, bitching, arguments were common but all had some limitations. and at the end of the day things were sorted out.

In these two years of journey I had made almost everyone my friend. But still there were difference between some .  I strengthened my EQ and communication skills. Coming to this college and studying in a diversified environment helped me a lot in understanding the characteristic of the human nature.

In the span of two years I made some of strong relation with my class mates and this bonding turned into best friendships. I use to shuffle between two groups one was my hostel friends and the other was cool Delites( delhi friends). I loved to be with both of them. The hostel friends were like family to me and my biggest share of my life was spent with them. The Delites friends were like fresh breeze. Their presence was so exciting and fun. Being with them was always a productive as they use to discus studies a lot. Their way of thinking use to inspire me to be cool. I miss them a lot.

The 1^st experience of competition was faced while sitting for SIP process and there we realized that we are no friend but competitors. And everyone is competing with one another to get the best offer . My SIP experience was awesome. Me and my companion had the most exciting time. More than learning our time spent enjoying it. There I  got 1^st hand experience of  industry working environment.

The college use to organize college fest to give us extra curriculum activity experience. From painting to dancing every event was organized and not participating would make me introvert so I participated for the 1^st time in face painting and street play and won in both. That gave me immense satisfaction and confidence.

 There were moments when I felt lonely. I felt that no one is my friend and neither I am to anyone. In those days I use to do something for self improvement. I use to do something productive and was able to develop the other side of me which was less diplomatic and more creative.

This is how I completed my college life . Two years MBA from a reputed college living far from parents and in a vast diversified environment enjoying and cherishing each moment. I miss my teachers and professors. They are the real strength behind  us. They are who  groomed us  and made competition ready.

Theory Of !! DeEDs DoNE !!

The Time never stops for anyone and so does the opportunity. History repeats itself and so does Karma. It is written in the Holy book of Geeta, "what you do you will it back". The question arises "Is this 100% true". The result of Karma comes back to us in a form unknown. Every single bit is recorded in our name and yet committing crime does not scares us of the outcome.

Definitely, when anything good is done every single moment the brain thinks only of return. Every single deed is done for something in return. But again the question is, will that happen . The nature of the universe is very complicated. It is difficult to decipher its codes.

The done can not be undone and what has to be done can be re-done. The meaning of this line is simple. Think before you act. Don't worry for the outcome but worry about the Karma which will repeat it self. There is always a other way to do a job. The logic is what's the intention behind. The intention and Karma can save you or can hurt you. 

New Year Celebration..!!!

                              

This new year 2014 began with ranbir's song...be besharm....at night when everyone was at party inother societies i was sleeping under my blanket and listening to radio . The Ranbir Charm is still on me... He is my  lucky charm.....All night listened to songs and slept .

On 1st 2014 i did not wanted to stay at home at any cost i wanted to leap out of my home and kiss the bright sun of new year. I planned to visit Bangla Saheb a very spiritual and most visited Gurudwara located in Delhi's heart.

Morning was very cool as winter is on and yet the sun raised its head to wish us happy new year.

I got ready in my favourite pink kurti and draped in sweater. All set I did my make-up to look really beautiful and to my surprise i was .....atleast to me...

Took the bus for metro and the metro station was silent no one around it felt little weird. but yet my excitement did not die.....

In almost 1 hour i reached patel chowk nearest metro to the Gurudwara.... i noticed many people where going to their office. So many of them where having duty today...OMG..

On patel chowk i searched for auto but no one was there so i decided to walk to the place but i did not knew the path.. so every time i saw a turn i used to ask some one where should i turn to reach to the spot. sometimes it seemed very awkward as on road many many people where there and many cars blocked the road most of them where for new year celebration .

But i am a dare devil i did not minded it...what i saw to my surprise that i have came to a road where all big office of Indian government laid... like RBI.. Some union work association building...SBI and Indian post..etc.... i was feeling so amazed to see them......

Some how after almost 10 mins i reached the gurudwara Bangla Saheb....I wanted to start my new year with a holy visit to gods shrine....and here i was.....

i saw a lot of crowd but to my surprise everything was very well managed...no pushing punching everyone as in line..... to see the Takth .....i could not wait so long so i sneaked in the line to the direct door of the Takht the place where "Guru Granth Saheb" is kept and prayed.... i went in to bow to the Takht. The crowd was so much that i have to waited 10 mins to come to the front.....There i went down and bowed . I prayed to God for happiness, prosperity and love for me and my family.... i also prayed to give me strength to bring all my dreams to reality and i win in my life everytime....

At that very moment when i bowed my head i felt a sudden peace that was missing in my life from past a few days .. i felt so blessed so nice.  i  felt that god was watching me...... i wanted to stay a little longer there but everyone want to bow so i need to leave.... then i took a round of the Takth and sat for few minutes and listened to the prayers and saw the beautiful interior.. its all made of gold or something of gold color..... i clicked pics...Then went out to see the pond....the pond was just in front of the God ... a very beautiful pond full of fishes... i dipped my legs and took the water in hand and sprinkled on my head....many devotees take bath in that pond before prayer...the pond was little full of muds and dirts of all devotee and i hope its cleaned everyday as many fishes live in it...The pond is like Ganga which cleans all the outer dirt of human and prepare the soul for prayer.... The water was very cold and very calm..;..

Then i sat for few minutes to see the beautiful Gurudwara.... i clicked lots of pics and then when i felt i shud live i left for home.....on my way i changed my mind to buy a new jacket from near flea market and so i moved on to the market which was over crowded.... i saw all thru and it was getting dark but i found nothing of my wish so i left the place and it was dark... i just ate very few thing as there was no restaurant or eatry facility....i left for metro station and which was packed with people... some how i went to the store and eat some food..... then took the train and got a seat also... in the night after a long journey of pleasure and fun i came back home....

This how i made my new year exciting.... with  fun and frolic all alone...and filled with pleasure to be self dependent......

When u witness Nature...!!!

                     

Birds ,birds & Birds all over my balcony....all kinds of bird Maina, Cookoo, Dove, Sparrow, Woodpecker......What not....what's going on...they are all taking Sabbath...it seemed the warm sunlight has tempted them to come in the city just in front of my balcony.....Which is surround trees.....Delhi is chilling...the temp is decreasing day by day...it damn too cold...

This place once was covered with lots of trees, animals, birds........in short it was a  jungle....and 11 years ago it was cleared to make buildings......now its a concrete jungle.......Well according to the old rule powerful kills the meek & weak,.....every morning I see beautiful scene of nature some what like a natures movie running in-front of my eyes.... Every bird is in pairs ......they all are with their love.......No one is alone...some have nests and picking food from ground to feed their young ones....

They shout, chirp, and make lots of noise but its the most beautiful sight to witness early morning ......I will miss it very much..... Birds also have life same as us... but their life is more beautiful........they don't fight , they are not greedy.....they left the jungles and flew away to find new place......So that we can get a place to live......They are sweet and kind....  love birds.....feed them..... protect them and plant trees for them. So that  this concrete jungle comes to life sometimes.

Dhoom 3.....U should be free....

 Dhoom 3.... I hate it....i can't believe they made movie for dada, dadi, mom, dad, massi but not we youngsters... same Saas bahu kinda smell from their whole 2:42 hrs Drama. With so many expectation i went to see the most awaited bikes fight,  Aamir's body and Katrina the tota ( Boys word).....And yes  no one was acting other then them all were busy delivering their speech..... give Aamir, katrina, bikes 100 crs each...

In the whole movie one thing that was missing, a good story. Even in make-up if u mess out with the base the whole make application looks uneven and washes off in some hours. The same thing was with this movie.....Yet i am hearing that people are still dropping in theaters to see this crap.... listen i know their is no other good movie around but don't waste money here.. many other options are still available...

The success is all because of the release timing ,its party time- new year and christmas round the  corner...... and also couples got a place to make love. after all 3 hrs long , dark theater no one will disturb them ( Which i noticed at the corner seat)...... and paapaa and mommy with kids can't watch adult movieso this saas bahu smelling soup is best for family....

The same story .....same style and seriously nothing new...Abhey thoda toh bheja lagate..... i hate u guys... i will make sure i punish u by not seeing yashraj's next moviessss.......

What do u think indian audiences r fools... they will see what ever u want thne to see. u will throw crap and they will come jumping and hauling to grab it.....What do u think hah!!......i think yes...warna aishe hi 300 cr nahi bante hai yaar.....my people r seriuosly dont understand what mistake they are doing...

Now i m sure we wont get sensible movies in future.....as more comes in when they make insensible movies like ....Chennai express, Ek tha Tiger (kya), Bodygaurd ( sounds like p...gaurd),  the list goes on.....all have one thing common....no story line.

We are killing the enthusiastic creative artists, movie writers and directors... do u guys ever thought of watching movies which actually makes sense.... i know movie in theater is for fun but guys.....movies are not fun...they have a huge impact on us...dont we know that... we try to imitate them....we follow and speak thier dialogues.....we wear like them and much more... so watch sensible things wic make sense....

I wish these nonsense movies never release. i was literally laughing seeing every scene...... so dont say that  Vijay did a great job say... wow the movie came at gud time- christmas and new year eve.... bas......aur koi achi movie side me nahi lagi hui thi......or else the result would have be very different as the viewers are not fools.....hain na..!!! ??? Hah..!!

Anyways.. i have noted 35 scenes where the whole movie looked pissed off.....for eg...
Abhisek and uday fighting in south like Rajni style.....wat was that....then u go chicago to show ur jalwa....that was bachann and chopra entry.....Rajni style...huh...!!! Is it so easy to loot banks in Chicago ...then why not try hands on indian banks..it will be kids play.....Not even once they showed how Aamir robbed the bank...it was only katrina, aamir's body and bikes....The great indian Circus looked like..DID.. Dance India dance show.....And most funny like Indian Soaps they also have Duplicates...Wow.. for Abhisek and uday two Aamir required....ohh... And the list goes on........

Yasraj Films Stinks with stupid stories......Guys u have money now buy some good story too.... or else start daily soap.......I cant stand more torture......Let creative directors work and creat something that make sense....I am not offending you but u think we r fools..... you can just show some big names, stunts, sexy bodies and think u will rob us.......well yes u robbed our pockets.... by showing the Great YStudio circus....Hurrah....!!!

Dashera and the nine days...

      

The energy that flows into our body, channelizing from mind to soul is coming from some peaceful & powerful  source. We get illuminated by lights of cosmic energy. When we assemble together at the pujas we are able to feel the soothing cosmic energy entering us. The 9 days of Navratra also gave same effect to me specially on the Astami. The Puja Pandals of Maa Durga , the Puja Arti, Bhog, and drum beats sound dhum dhuni enthraled me from within .I felt the power of Goddess coming from her towards me.

These Nine days of Navratra is very powerful .  Everywhere u can feel a positive , and powerful energy surrounding us. Nine days when all nine names(Roops) of Devi is worshipped with powerful mantras, by powerful pundits, all things that delight her is offered to her to show that we care for her choices. Delighting her who is a source of cosmic energy will definitely cure our soul's agony . Everyone has their own reasons why they worship her. Some say they love Maa Durga because she gave them this and that etc etc . My Reason is because I see my mother in her. I always feel that she is able to understand my worth better . The days of festive is full of energy and to submerge in the pond of energy we go to the epic center. The place where everything is majestic like the Mandirs, Puja pandal  Aarti asthal etc.

                 
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We celebrate so many festivals of God. These festives is not only for us to wear cloths, eat sweets, do shopping or roam . These festives has one thing in common and that is we unconditionally worship someone keeping it in centre. It’s Just like we are celebrating for someone. These festives are to enlighten our soul. Our body is made of 5 elements and these elements are controlled by our soul and these soul is a part of the almighty God . And I believe god wants to nourish and give happiness to our soul. Everyone at these spiritual moment feel the some energy surrounding them. So close that we can sometime feel it, if we even slightly try.

Festives are celebration. Celebration of victory of good over evil .We know that this is absolute kalyug and to protect the innocence of human we need someone powerful to be taking care . Even if we don’t attend the Pandal puja , don’t sit in the Aartis or don’t believe in these things then also each one of us indifferent to caste can feel some positive energy surrounding us. Particularly these festives make the earth the center of unconditional power. Who so ever say god is nowhere. Is the biggest liar I believe. Just because these people can’t live in the terms and conditions of God they don’t even want to believe that something that is controlling them from head to toe is present. How can u say I m not made of iron, if  u can’t see it in ur blood with ur bare eyes. One should not speak until they are very sure about it.

These Festivals are means for us to purify our souls. When we sit in the pujas the supreme energy keeps flowing from the bowl of Mega energy to us. Piercing our body and purifying our soul. I know we cant see the effect instantly but definitely it is working and it will be seen when it should be seen. These rules and style of Aarti, Puja , Prasad, Mantras are not made today it is prevailing from millions of year ago when mankind was aloof of all sin. So I believe these rules & style to worship is unique and excellent in itself. To gain that benefit we should attend and be a part of the celebration. Let are souls be dipped in the bowl of energy.

My Exp of Trading.

The first time I heard of Stock trading was in 2006. In my family my brother use to invest in share market. I would like to mention that he was younger to me and yet he had better knowledge of stock market and financial market of india.  His habit of trading was though had a evry bad affect on his whole career now he is not into it and suggest not to take this type of risk. As this is like alcohol drinking problem .

He had opened account of mother and farther and use to do trading. In all those years I never heard that we made any profit but yes use to hear that today is price down ,market down , market bull , market bear etc. I never personally had any interest into it. I was so obsessed with designing and creative thing that I hardly like anything so unstable. I still today don’t trust on unstable things.

Trading ceased in our home after 2 years when my brother made loss. still today no one knows how much is the loss and what actually happened. The big problem in my home is the money matters .it was hardly discussed at home and we use to blindly follow wrong advicers.

Then next time in my whole life I experienced trading in my Management college . I am in finance stream and here our course contained a online virtual trading platform where we need to practice by ourselves . No actual money invested.

The exp was just ok, as still I hate it. I forgot to mention that I won 2000 rupees in my gradate college for playing virtual trading. can u believe this. 

Then in my MBA I did my Summer internship in IIFL. It’s a trading house of India. well known by many victims. He He I am calling people as victims because I know the real story of inside the trading house. There I watched how this actually happens.I got a live exp.  wow. they play with your money and you are on their mercy if they want to trade for you on profit they will or else suffer loss. Anyways this is not so very true. They try to experiment let me say. They do it with your investment and sometimes it is successful. So suggest do trading but should hire a very reliable relationship manager.

This game is sometimes called the "the Game of luck". Now let me prove it to u. Suppose yesterday u had heard a news that some abc co. shares had been bought by its own owner and thus it is very obvious that the price of the shares will move up. as the trust on the company has escalated. And in the morning you buy the shares of the company . now the opposite happened and u ended up making loss. on the other hand you neighbor just bought some shares thinking that this news may be false . As he must have done some research. Thus here he is lucky and u ...........

So be very specific. be sure and don’t forget to analyze the market before pressing any button. The more you understand the financial world the more u will be safe.

there are more than 500 terms in stock trading. and only by playing live you can mug up the terms. well basically for a new player it’s just two term buy and sell. you should know when to buy and when to sell. 

In my life I have hardly heard anyone saying I am loving trading and making 100s of crs of profit . no one makes profit. if u sum at the end of the day you will see that you  just played and paid the brokerage. The company made profit coz of you. Their shares were high more trust on that company and more money coming in. 

If anyone seriously wants to make money in a very systematic manner then have a balance sheet prepared for each day’s trading. Make a journal and do keep noting you profit and try to 1st recover your equity that you invested into it. Then try to use your fund carefully.  Rest for more info on “How to be expert in 10 days in trading “ or “ how can I make profit in trading “ search on google...(the name after god).