Last evening i was surfing my net and then one of my very emotional and old friend called me up....i like this girl a lot because of her dedication to complete anything that she takes in hand.....she called me and then we exchanged casual talks about how we are , whats going on in our life etc etc... withing 10 mins our conversation seemed to be blank...now there was nothing between us to share.. may be there was a lot of thing but we could not share it ....as we both stay very far from each other and we can hardly know what she may take my words as....
Then it went very boring just 10 mins before i saw her call and i was very excited and now after 10 mins its over ...what was it....
while we both where quite on both the ends of the phone... she suddenly started her old topic...." su.. i am not happy .. i wanna kill myself... i want to go some place where i am alone ... blah blah blah.... she chanted these words for almost 1 hr....."
let me tell you these words are from a girl who is studying in one of the best medical colleges of India....if people like her says like these things then what shall we people do...
Then it went very boring just 10 mins before i saw her call and i was very excited and now after 10 mins its over ...what was it....
while we both where quite on both the ends of the phone... she suddenly started her old topic...." su.. i am not happy .. i wanna kill myself... i want to go some place where i am alone ... blah blah blah.... she chanted these words for almost 1 hr....."
let me tell you these words are from a girl who is studying in one of the best medical colleges of India....if people like her says like these things then what shall we people do...
Actually then she related me to her problem why she is unhappy.... she is attracted towards a boy in her class and she want to befriend him ... she is alone sometimes and she wants to talk to him... but the climax of the scene is.....he is not so interested and they hardly talks ... she longs to be close to him and it hardly matters to him...
Thus because of this big reason she is sad and wants to leave everything and go somewhere....i don't know what this is called may be this is love or may be this is lack of connectivity with other good things in her life which makes her turn back to him and the hollowness...
But i knew only one thing that We all humans should not make these silly things a reasons for our sadness....life is so long and with so many ups and downs and who knows which moment of life shall be the most saddest part of life.... just imagine when we will be on our death bed , we can recall all that happened in our life and then do u think that at that time we shall be able to say that 'that moment was the saddest moment of our life' and 'that was the happiest' ... we shall be more worried of the things that shall come ahead..even on the dead bed we shall be looking forwards in life....
I never say "ki jindgi ko hash kar bitao... rather i would say jindagi ko samjh kar bitao"...if a person is lazy and yet he has big dreams then one day he will be guilty and he will be sad... if a person if hardworking and he hardly dreams he shall be again sad and will be guilty .. thus samjhso ki tum kya kar sakte ho aur kya karna chate ho...( understand your capability, strength and then see dreams..).. i am sure with this clarity you shall never be unhappy....
An ugly girl can never say that i want to be the most beautiful actress ... rather she should say i wanna be the best actress... i may not look good but i will giving my best shot every time.... and i am sure she will never be unhappy... she made her goal appropriate and then she was capable enough to achieve it ....
Many people are unhappy or sad because they don't speak their mind or iether they dont understand their mind...they hate someone but they will never make that person realize it...when a person loves someone they might be quiet and will say nothing....then we feel we are sad .... arrey baba..... if you have never made an effort and never saw a failure then how can you be sad.....
supposes a man is crying and is very sad that his wife is dead ... he heard that on phone that she met with an accident and she is dead ..... he is crying and is very very sad ......just 10 mins later the door opens and his wife says him hello.... and says that one of my friend was bullying you.... the expression on his face , mind and heart will change within a second....Ab.... he is no more sad and he is very very happy.... just within 10mins the things changed so drastically....it like a joke....it depend on you what u wanna experience...
Sadness , happiness, suicide, etc is now a days a joke for almost all people....bina kuch kiye. " mae marjana chata hu/ chahti hu...."
pehel kuch karo phir u will urself realize that life is so vast with so many opportunities that there is no need to even say that i am sad.....and if anyone is doing something many time yet no success then for sure u are doing it wrong... change the method of doing and see the success......
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