Saturday, April 19, 2014

Memories of college days.


Its been 9 days since college got over . The college life is something which everyone remembers and share with their friends and family when ever anything similar crosses their life.

The 1st day of my MBA college was in June . It was a two years of  diploma experience in the field of business, diplomacy, human relation and financial world.  

I was one month late to college and that’s why quite cut off from rest of the class. To make friends in a diplomatic environment is quite tough. A ray of hope is only possible when  you are ready to adapt and be open to anyone’s proposal. And this happened with me not once but I made two friends. And because of those them I was welcomed in a group. Our chemistry was awesome. They became my best of friend till date.

The process of making acquaintance was progressing and the communication barrier was minimizing. Everyday a new presentation, viva, project were making our life tough. Everything depended on making a strong group. It was very essential to have good working people in the group otherwise the question of who will complete the project would mess up all.

In the best of groups also only one person as messiah, who was responsible to complete the whole work alone . The best moment happened when we all gather to discuss those serious topics of business and projects and presentations. And the whole serious situation turned out to be a get together party with food, snacks, cold drinks and lots of gossip and the presentation had to be Googled and copied atlast . Those silly days brought us so close that it felt like family . The whole hostel was turned into a place where each one use to support other.  Those were the moment when working together in groups made us strong  and we started to think like leaders and take decisions for a team.

The preparation for exams was never in isolation. Group studies helped us not just to study faster but also to pass the exam with mutual efforts. The days were passing with lots of fun and adventure .Fights, bitching, arguments were common but all had some limitations. and at the end of the day things were sorted out.

In these two years of journey I had made almost everyone my friend. But still there were difference between some .  I strengthened my EQ and communication skills. Coming to this college and studying in a diversified environment helped me a lot in understanding the characteristic of the human nature.

In the span of two years I made some of strong relation with my class mates and this bonding turned into best friendships. I use to shuffle between two groups one was my hostel friends and the other was cool Delites( delhi friends). I loved to be with both of them. The hostel friends were like family to me and my biggest share of my life was spent with them. The Delites friends were like fresh breeze. Their presence was so exciting and fun. Being with them was always a productive as they use to discus studies a lot. Their way of thinking use to inspire me to be cool. I miss them a lot.

The 1st experience of competition was faced while sitting for SIP process and there we realized that we are no friend but competitors. And everyone is competing with one another to get the best offer . My SIP experience was awesome. Me and my companion had the most exciting time. More than learning our time spent enjoying it. There I  got 1st hand experience of  industry working environment.

The college use to organize college fest to give us extra curriculum activity experience. From painting to dancing every event was organized and not participating would make me introvert so I participated for the 1st time in face painting and street play and won in both. That gave me immense satisfaction and confidence.
 There were moments when I felt lonely. I felt that no one is my friend and neither I am to anyone. In those days I use to do something for self improvement. I use to do something productive and was able to develop the other side of me which was less diplomatic and more creative.

This is how I completed my college life . Two years MBA from a reputed college living far from parents and in a vast diversified environment enjoying and cherishing each moment. I miss my teachers and professors. They are the real strength behind  us. They are who  groomed us  and made competition ready.